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August 2010

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Venue Feedback - The Hotel George & The Hotel Monaco

Last week was a big week in the venue search front.  If you were wondering, we are still unsuccessful.  Kelley and I looked at the The Hotel George near Union Station Metro.  It is a Kimpton resort so it has all the uniqueness and charm we are looking for. What is doesn’t have is space.  We were warned that the space would be tight for 80 - 90 people and they were right.  The space is designed for meetings, not weddings.  Basically, we would have to have our guests stand up during the ceremony. Even though it will be a short ceremony, I want my guests to be comfortable.  

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After the disappointment of The Hotel George not being spacious enough for us, we headed to Chinatown to look at the sister property, Hotel Monaco.  I fell in love! This is the first venue I could see myself getting married.  Aside from the history of the building and the quirkiness of it (providing guest with complimentary goldfish to keep them company in their rooms), the space is beautiful.  From the long spiral staircases, to the cathedral ceilings, to the openness of the finely decorated rooms.

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I immediately looked at my wedding planner and said, “This is it!”  Of course, my dreams were shattered once we started talking money!  With a $20,000 food & beverage minimum, that basically sums up the budget we have set for our wedding. Unbelievable.  I am still so amazed at how expensive everything is in the district.  You would think having a winter wedding when most wedding professionals are hurting for business, we would be saving an arm and a leg.  Turns out we are paying more for services.  Yikes!

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Which means…the search is still on for the perfect, affordable venue.  

Aug 30, 20100 notes
#the hotel george #the hotel monaco #chinatown #union station
Venue Feedback - North Hall at Eastern Market

Today Beetle and I met with our planner and checked out the North Hall at Eastern Market for a possible wedding venue.  We LOVE the Eastern Market area (its super dog friendly with lots of flea and food markets).  

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The first impression of the space was great!  We liked the high cathedral ceilings, the big open windows, and the “Blank canvas” feel of the space.

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There were some downsides to the venue though.  The rental fee is $4500 for the building until 1am, which means we would have to pay $200 for each additional hour.  Realistically, we would need at least 1 or 2 additional hours on the back end for breakdown and such  This means we are looking at about $5,000 just for the room!

We would basically have to pay for EVERYTHING, which means pipe and draping, scaling down the dance floor, tent and heaters for caterers, furniture, decor, stage rental for DJ/band to enhance acoustics, transportation because there aren’t bridal suites, and lighting.  All of these extras make me see lots of dollar bill signs because those are a lot of “extras.” Especially considering we still have to come up with money for the food, vendors, favors, etc.

Another downfall of the space is that we can’t have the sparkler exit I wanted!

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There was a fire at Eastern Market in 2007 that nearly shut it down forever. Because of this, they have made some changes, which now prohibits fireworks from the premises.  Seems like it wouldn’t be a problem to abide by the change until I think about our guests saying farewell without sparklers in hand.  

I know this is a very small detail but one that I wanted in our special day. 

Aug 25, 20100 notes
#eastern market, #washington dc #venue feedback #north hall at eastern market
Venue Feedback - Mansion on O Street

Our first venue visit was The Mansion on O Street in Dupont Circle.  Me, Beetle, AND our wedding planner were SO EXCITED to see the mansion.  Last week we headed down to Dupont Circle in the pouring rain to “book” our venue.

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The mansion has over 100 rooms and 32 secret doors spread throughout four maze-like floors.  It is actually four row houses opened to one another and turned into one elaborate hotel and museum where EVERYTHING you see is for sale.  Literally, everything!

We were very surprised once we walked inside because it was VERY different than we had imagined - all of us!  

One room was called the John Lennon room - you can see his picture on the bathroom floor!

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The rooms were filled with STUFF.  I couldn’t stop laughing as we walked through each room because there was stuff everywhere!  I felt like we were walking through a flea market or we were filming an episode of “Hoarders: Buried Alive.”

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In the end, the venue is very unique and eclectic. If i were to have a Sunday Brunch wedding, I would heavily consider it, but it does not fit into our New Year’s Eve theme.  One thing to note is there are a lot of hidden fees.  A LOT.  Basically, there is a $1000 membership fee and a $4500 rental fee for the main floor.  Sounds reasonable until you learn that you pay for EVERYTHING.  For instance, they will provide paper plates and cups, but if you want real plates and glasses, you pay for each! You also pay to have them cleaned!  

Aug 23, 20100 notes
#mansion on o street #venue feedback
DIY Idea - Candle Shades

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Wow. What an amazing idea to create your own little lamps.  I wonder how these will work once the candle burns out?  Does the wax get all over the wine glass? Is it ruined?  I may have to try this out!  Tutorial here -  http://www.casasugar.com/DIY-Wine-Glass-Candle-Lampshades-1551107  

Aug 18, 2010-1 notes
#shades #candle lamps #wine glass DIY
Making it Official - Social Media Style

 In our times, it is not “official” until it is Facebook official.  So, we waited a few weeks until we changed our statuses so we could verbally share our news with our friends and families. 

Then came the time to tell the world!

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Aug 15, 20100 notes
#facebook official #engaged
My Heart Was Stolen - Cake Edition
Remember rice krispie treats as children? Welp, I do and I L.O.V.E.D. them…still do! Looks like we have a cake to add to our dessert bar!
 


Can you believe it? A giant cake made of rice krispies! Wow! Can’t wait to “taste-test” it!
Aug 15, 20100 notes
#rice krispie, wedding cake, yum
So Many Ideas in my little Pea Brain...

I have so many ideas running through my little pea brain about our wedding that it is hard to believe it is a year and a half away. If we had the money, we could definitely pull it off by this New Years! I have no doubt!


Anyway, here are some things I definitely want to include. Sometimes it’s the little details thatare overlooked but mean so much!


1. Dancing shoes:

Every woman wants to wear heels because they make you feel sexy and look long and lean. BUT, let’s get serious! Our little feetsies can only take so much pain and torture so I want to be sure sore feet doesn’t keep my guests off the dance floor.


2. Pashminis:


A winter wedding means cold guests. I want them to warm up with these cute little pashminis. They double as a gift they take home from yours truly.

3. Mashed Potato Bar:


We are having a late start to our wedding so we can make it through the new year with our guests, which means it will be too late to serve dinner! We are going to focus on heavy hors d’oeuvres and a dessert bar. I absolutely L.O.V.E. the idea of throwing in a mashed potato bar!



4. Martini Bar:

To cut down on costs, we are thinking we will serve wine and beer and forgo the premium liquor bar. Instead, we want to offer a Martini bar. How cool is this martini bar/ice sculptures?


5. Floating Orbs of Light - http://www.oknowwhatbride.com/2010/08/diy-floating-orbs-of-light.html

Aug 15, 20100 notes
#details, martini bar, mashed potato bar
The Cupcake Craze

I love working with wedding vendors for a living because once in awhile you run into someone who’s work blows you away. This is the case today with “Enticing Tables” in San Diego. The owner Valerie creates candelabras, centerpieces, cake stands, AND MY FAVORITES….Cupcake trees!

They would work perfect for our “dessert - theme” reception. They can be rented for $30 each or bought for $90 each. They are adorable!!!!


Here is an shot up close of what it would look like by adding cupcakes and a simple flower.


I can’t believe how many different ways you can customize a cupcake to resemble a flower. These are the best idea ever!


I will be honest, I have never really understood the cupcake craze! Now, it seems I have been bit by the cupcake lovin’ bug because I can’t get these cupcake “flowers” out of my little pea brain!


 

Aug 15, 2010-1 notes
#cupcake craze, cupcake flowers
Fancy Cake

Beetle and I went for a Saturday night run and saw this beautiful cake in the window of Fancy Cakes in Bethesda. Wow! I am not usually gaga for yellow and white, but this cake is gorgeous. See the flower bouquet on the top? Yep, that is made from icing. Can you believe it?

Perhaps we will have to check this place out for our wedding cake. Beetle got my birthday cake from this place and it was DE-licious. They made a cake for the Pope’s birthday - if they are good enough for the Pope, they are good enough for me:)

 YUMMY!

Aug 15, 20100 notes
Wedding Planner - Check!

I have found my wedding planner! She and I were connected through WeddingWire.com’s SmartMatch system and she is fabulous. Kelley Cannon owns a small boutique planning company called Kelley Cannon Events located in Alexandria, VA.

Kelley and I chatted for a good 1/2 hour today about her company, my vision, budget, and what we can make happen. Next week we are going to meet to hopefully make everything official. A planner is a necessity when it comes to wedding planning because they can negotiate with vendors and keep you on budget - a good planner will pay for herself!


Dress - Check!, Planner - Check!, Next on list: Venue!

Aug 15, 20100 notes
Wedding Dress Thoughts...
I can not get my wedding dress off of my mind. It is driving me crazy. I obviously can’t post pictures of my dress on here because Beetle reads this blog (he’s my biggest fan)!
BUT….Here are some dresses I am going to HAVE to try on to get them off of my mind. Some may be reposts because I mean it, I can’t stop thinking about them!

maggie sottero - rosalyn

maggie sottero - rosalyn

Jasmine Style T394

Jasmine Style T394
Aug 15, 20100 notes
#jasmine, maggie sottero, undecisive, wedding dresses
On the News

Channel 4 did a special today on the “running of the brides” and they taped me trying on my dress. Guess what? I made the news!
Still looking for the segment online to post, but we saw it air once we returned to work. Apparently, Beetle’s friends saw the news segment because this was posted on his facebook wall…

Andrew Kern My girl says she saw your girl on the news 5 hours ago via Facebook for iPhone · Comment ·Like
Aug 15, 20100 notes
Save the Date - December 31, 2011

It’s official! We have set the date - December 31, 2011. We want a black tie affair and a whole lot of fun!


Now is the hard part - finding the perfect venue! I originally wanted to have a small wedding in a restaurant but now that we want a new year’s eve bash, that won’t work because we (most likely) won’t be serving dinner. We would have the ceremony start around 8pm, which means we could get away with heavy hors d’oeuvres and a dessert bar. Maybe serve midnight snacks of mini cheeseburgers and fries?


I really want to secure the venue NOW so that I can make sure we lock in our popular date. That is my goal for August - find a venue!

Aug 15, 20100 notes
#new year's eve wedding, set the date, venue
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Dessert & My Sweet Tooth

If you know me, you will know that I am not a big dessert person. I am a candy addict but pies, cakes, and cupcakes don’t really call my sweet tooth. This makes it difficult when you think of a wedding because you are supposed to have a a really big, expensive, delicious cake.
I was thinking it would be a great idea to have a dessert bar. Is it too childish to include this “sushi” rice krispie rolls?

What about my famous cake pops?


Maybe I will keep these for a bridal shower or something…

Aug 15, 20100 notes
#cake pops, sushi dessert
Being Creative On A Budget

I love out of the box ideas for weddings! I just saw on a blog where a couple tied the knot in san francisco at a nursery. Here is the blog post -

http://blogs.dexknows.com/weddings/2010/07/photo-gallery-mike-nicoles-wedding-weekend/


They made it work by being cReATiVe. There wasn’t a kitchen so they hired a gourmet pizza truck to serve pizza and salad. They had a dessert bar of cake pops and small cakes. They used the cash register area as a bar. wow. Not to mention they ended their wedding weekend with a game of kickball the next day - FUN!

Here is another fun wedding! A small, intimate wedding in San Fran. The guests sit on blankets with their own picnic baskets. ADORABLE! …and check out those fun Bridesmaid dresses.


I LOVE LOVE the idea of these fun boutonnieres - I wonder if Beetle would let us have these?


Aug 15, 20100 notes
#budget wedding, san francisco
Taking HIS last name!

It is obvious that I am very excited to be an “official” part of Beetle’s family. I LOVE them as my own already! Beetle’s mom AND sister kept their last names, which presented the question…


Will I Take Beetle’s Last name?


YES! OF COURSE! It is a lot easier to pronounce! :)


BUT….I will say that I am jealous it doesn’t have quick as nice a ring tone as Jordan Jordan.

Check out the girl with the coolest “new”name - copy and paste the link. I promise, it is worth it:)


http://ourblogoflove.com/index.cfm?postID=536

Aug 15, 20100 notes
#jordan jordan, last name
Bring in the New Year 2012?

After trying to plan the “perfect” New Year’s Eve year after year with little success, I always thought it would be the perfect holiday to celebrate a wedding. The question is…Is it a the perfect time to celebrate our wedding? The more I think about it, the more I think YES!

Here are the pros:

  • TIME: It gives us a full year and a half of being engaged (enough time to save for the downpayment of a house this new year and save for a wedding afterwards).
  • DATE: It happens to fall on a Saturday. December 31, 2011.
  • INTIMATE: It would help us keep the guest list small.
  • FUN: It allows us to be quirky and show our fun side - not to mention a great excuse to throw one heck of a party!
  • BUDGET: It should be budget-friendly since it is in the off season for weddings.
  • VACATION TIME: It is a time people can take off work without worrying about getting far behind or sing too many vacation days since it is a paid holiday.
  • ATTIRE: It will be a great excuse for guest’s to wear their “best,” allowing us to have a classy affair without explicitly stated it. Maybe a black tie ball?

Here are the cons:

  • WEATHER - If it is in the DC area, winters are unpredictable. This could cause serious travel hazards for out of town guests.
  • BUDGET: It is the off season for vendors but rates could increase considering it is a holiday.

We also haven’t decided Destination or DC area. Hmmm. For the DC area, I have some great ideas. For instance, name the tables after DC neighborhoods so out of town guests can get familiar with the city. For goody bags, I would include a map of the dc metro and a metro card.

Also, we must have these Bridesmaid dresses. No idea what designer or where to get them so I will have to ask around because these are a must for a new years eve celebration!

This wedding dress isn’t “New Year’s Eve-y” but still so beautiful - alfred angelo #433.

Aug 15, 20100 notes
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